2 Samuel 12:1-15
Mortification of Sin
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- Announcements
- Opening Hymn — Come, Christians, Join to Sing
- Call to Worship — Hebrews 10:19-25
- Hymn — Come, Christians, Join to Sing
- Prayer of Invocation
- Confession of Faith — Heidelberg Catechism, Question 1
- Scripture Reading — Acts 18:18-28
- Hymn — Teach Me, O Lord, Your Way of Truth
- Pastoral Prayer
- Offering
- Prayer of Dedication
- Hymn — O Love That Will Not Let Me Go
- Sermon
- Hymn — O the Deep, Deep Love of Jesus
- Benediction — Hebrews 13:20-21
- Doxology
Sermon Title: Mortification of Sin
Scripture: 2 Samuel 12:1-15
I. Mortification Involves Self-Exposure
A. God pursues David in grace by sending Nathan to expose his hidden sin
- Dale Ralph Davis: "You may succeed in unfaithfulness, but Yahweh will come after you" — God's pursuing grace is genuine comfort
- David's sin had been lingering unrepented, possibly six months to a year — a spiritual gangrene eating away at his soul
- Nathan's parable provokes David's indignation against the rich man who stole the poor man's lamb
B. David unknowingly invokes a curse upon himself, echoing Peter's denial (1 Samuel 15)
- Nathan's haunting declaration: "You are the man"
- David judged the rich man as deserving death — the very judgment applicable to himself
C. The passage reveals how sin creates blind spots
- We tend to make the litmus test for godliness the areas in which we naturally excel
- David would never steal a poor man's lamb — yet he is the man; his sin was in a different category he did not scrutinize
- David's sin was secret (2 Samuel 12:12) — we wrongly assume that secret sin is less serious
- "Judge not lest you be judged" (Matthew 7:1) is not situational but a permanent standard of Christian living
D. Practical application: when news kindles our anger at another's sin, pause and examine what lies within that, if unleashed, would produce the same sin
- John Owen: "Sin aims always at the utmost… every unclean thought or glance would be adultery if it could"
- The cross proclaims to every sinner: "You are the man" — place your hand over your mouth before judging others
II. Mortification Involves Sanctifying Consequences
A. God's judgments on David are perfectly proportioned to his sins
- The sword will never depart from David's house — corresponds to his killing of Uriah
- David's wives will be taken and given to his neighbor publicly — corresponds to his taking of his neighbor's wife in secret
- Luke 8:17: "Nothing is hidden that will not be made known, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light"
B. The importance of confessing sin to a trusted brother or sister
- Part of killing sin is opening up to one another so that we can be iron sharpening iron
- Find someone who will listen without wagging a finger, remind you of forgiveness in Christ, and encourage sanctification
C. The deepest consequence is that David has sinned personally against the Lord
- 2 Samuel 12:9: "Why have you despised the word of the Lord?"
- 2 Samuel 12:10: "You have despised me"
- David's confession: "I have sinned against the Lord" — not against Bathsheba, Uriah, or Israel, but against his personal Lord
- Psalm 51:4: "Against you, and you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight"
D. David's two-word Hebrew confession — "Sin, Lord" — is the mark of a man after God's own heart
- No excuses, no circumstances offered — naked and exposed before God
- Contrast with Saul's excuse-making in 1 Samuel 15
- A man after God's own heart is one who knows how desperately he needs Jesus Christ
- Hebrews 12 — the Father disciplines the children he loves, rendering us naked before him so we may be clothed in Christ's righteousness alone
III. Mortification Involves a Stinging Forgiveness
A. Nathan delivers the assurance of pardon: "The Lord also has put away your sin; you shall not die"
- David had declared the guilty man deserves to die; Nathan had declared David is that man — yet David hears the pardoning voice
B. God's forgiveness does not cancel the consequences of sin
- The child born to David and Bathsheba will die as a consequence of David's sin
- Illustration of a father who forgives a son yet maintains the discipline — love and consequence together strengthen the relationship
- Do not shudder at the combination of God's rod and God's forgiveness — together they draw us closer to him
C. The correlation between David's judgment on the rich man and the judgment on David
- In 2 Samuel 12:5 David calls the man "a son of death" (Hebrew); his own son becomes a son of death
- Important clarification: this is a unique, explicitly stated divine consequence — the passage does not teach that the death of a child is generally the result of parental sin
D. The stinging forgiveness points to Calvary
- Placing David's pardon and his son's death in the same breath (2 Samuel 12:13-14) directs our hearts to the cross
- The Father's pardoning voice to us costs the death of his own Son — God's Son becomes a son of death so we may have life in abundance
- Your forgiveness comes with a cup of wrath — poured out not on our sons but on his Son
- When temptation comes, let the death of God's Son come to mind, as the death of his son would have come to David's mind
- We are to live as thanksgiving and self-sacrificing offerings to the Father who did not spare his only begotten Son (Romans 8:32)